There are many why your partner may be unfaithful. Here are some of the reasons why a partner C.H.E.A.T.S
C- Close/ dependency on someone else. Your partner may become close to someone, often a work colleague. They may feel they are not getting enough attention at home and may even believe their actions are justified. At Bluemoon we have come across many situations where men have cheated shortly after the arrival of a new baby.
H – Hedging bets. Perhaps your partner believes your relationship is about to end and they embark on their ‘next’ relationship.
E -Emotional distance from partner , lack of trust. Where this exists in a relationship there can be a lack of motivation to resolve problems, this may lead to your partner cheating.
A- Attracted. Your partner may cheat because they are attracted to someone else
T- The opportunity. There may not be a major problem with your relationship, your partner may cheat simply because they do not believe they will get caught or that you will find out.
S-Substances. The use of alcohol or drugs may be a contributory factor in your partner cheating.
Word of advice
Always trust your intuition if you feel there is something amiss and that your partner could be cheating, - then you are probably right. If you are in this situation, Bluemoon can help you. Contact us for a free no obligation consultation